Saturday, November 27, 2010

Pengorbanan Isteri tak soleh

(Lawak) Tiga kali je curang...
by Blog Oh Malaysia! on Saturday, November 27, 2010 at 1:35pm
Pada satu malam, ada pasangan yg agak berumur sedang makan malam dengan romantiknya bagi menyambut ulangtahun perkahwinan mereka yg ke 50 tahun.

Suaminya, seorang Tan Sri dan bekas ahli politik mula bercerita tentang nostalgia mereka suami isteri, sekian lama hidup bersama, suka duka, susah dan senang. Si suami memang menyanjung isterinnya, bernama Maria.

"Maria, selama kita kahwin ni, suka duka kita lalui, susah senang kita tempuh, abang amat menyanyang Maria, tapi ada satu perkara yg asyik bermain-main di benak abang ni dan abang selalu bertanya-tanya. Berterus-teranglah dgn abang pada malam ni, pernah tak Maria curang dgn abang selama ni?"

Maria agak terkedu sekejap dan merenung panjang muka suaminya itu, lalu berkata dengan penuh kekesalan, "Ya abang, Maria mengaku pernah curang dgn abang, tapi hanya 3 kali sahaja selama ni"

"3 kali?" Tan Sri tu agak terkejut, tapi tak la marah, dah tua dah dan memang berniat utk memaafkan isterinya,"Bagaimana boleh terjadi 3 kali tu Maria?"

Perlahan jer la isteri dia mula membuka lebaran cerita lama, "Abang ingatkan masa kita mula-mula kawin, terus beli rumah dan selang beberapa tahun, kita susah sangat masa tu hingga rumah kita hampir nak dirampas oleh bank"

"Ya, abang ingat peristiwa tu" jawab si suami. Si isteri menyambung cerita, "Abang pasti ingat yg pada satu petang tu Maria pergi jumpa pegawai bank tu dan esoknya, bank tu tak jadi rampas rumah kita, malah bagi tambahan pinjaman utk abang mulakan perniagaan.."

"Emmmm.. sukar buat abang menerima kenyataan ini, tapi abang maafkan maria kerana apa yg maria buat tu untuk masa depan kita jugak", kata si suami, " Kali ke 2 pulak?"

"Abang ingat tak, abang hampir menemui maut sebab ketumbuhan dalam otak pembedahan?" si isteri menyambung cerita "Ya, abang ingat" jawab si suami. "Kalau macam tu, abang pasti ingat yg Maria ada pergi jumpa doktor pakar tu dan esoknya, dia setuju buat pembedahan utk abang tanpa bayaran apa-apa pun.."

"Oh maria, walau perit hati ini mendengarkan, tapi abang tetap maafkan maria sebab apa yg maria buat tu untuk masa depan kita jugak dan kerana sayangkan abang jugak.. yang kali ke 3 macam mana pulak? ", kata si Tan Sri. Si isteri menundukkan mukanya dan menjawab penuh lemah, "Abang, ingat tak masa abang bertanding merebut kerusi bahagian dan abang perlukan 248 undi lagi...."

Tan Sri pengsan kat situ jugak...

Loh Mahfuz

-Sudah tertulis di Loh Mahfuz-by Hizb Addeen on Tuesday, November 16, 2010 at 8:27am
Pada suatu hari, Saya bertanya kepada emak, "Maa satu pilihan hati, orang yang sayangkan kita atau yang kita sayang? "Mak jawab, "dua-dua bukan.." Saya tercengang..Mak mengukir senyuman.



"Pilihan hati mak adalah yang sayangkan kita kerana Allah.." Saya menarik nafas dalam-dalam."Macam mana nak tau orang tu sayang kita kerana apa?" Mak diam sekejap berfikir dan kemudian tersenyum.



Rasanya mak dapat menduga apa yang sedang bermain dalam hati anak perempuannya. Mana mungkin saya mampu menyorokkan rahsia hati dari mak sedangkan sekilas saya pun mak mampu membacanya."Yang paling tahu hanya Allah.." mak merenung dalam-dalam wajah anaknya.



"Kerana hanya Allah mampu membaca hati hambaNya.. " mak menyusun ayat-ayatnya."Dan keikhlasan kerana Allah itu akan terserlah keberkatannya tanpa perlu sengaja ditonjolkan oleh seseorang tu.."



Saya memintas, "Tak faham.."Mak menyambung "Cinta di dalam jalan Allah.. Bertemu kerana sama-sama mencari redha Allah.." Mak menyambung lagi,"begini, setiap insan yang bergelar manusia telah Allah ciptakan berpasang-pasangan. Rasa ingin dikasihi antara seorang suami dan isteri suatu fitrah. Automatik boleh ada daya tarikan magnet tu.."



Wajah saya merah, sedikit cemas jika mak dapat mengesan gelora jiwa muda ini.. Mak menyambung "Setiap manusia telah Allah tetapkan rezeki,jodoh dan maut sejak azali lagi..



Persoalannya ialah.. Siapakah jodohnya itu?" mak berhenti seketika.Saya tunduk malu, cuba menyorokkan rasa panas di pipi.Emak buat-buat tidak nampak.



Secret Admire



"Kakak, mak dulu masa remaja ada secret admire.. Rajin betul dia hantar surat ..Masa tu mak dah tahu yang bercinta sebelum kahwin ni tak halal..Dan masa tu mak tekad tak mahu layan sebab mak takut arwah tokwan kena seksa dalam kubur.. Mak sedar mak anak yatim, anak orang miskin, adik beradik ramai.. Mak nak belajar sungguh-sungguh. .lama budak tu tunggu mak..Akhirnya mak bagi kata putus, mak hanya akan membalas cinta dia jika dia sah suami mak..



Dan dia memang bukan jodoh mak, maka tak pernah dia menerima balasan cinta tu." Mak merenung jauh.Saya merapatkan badan kepada emak, semakin berminat dengan kisah lama mak..



"Mak memang tak ada perasaan langsung pada dia ke?" saya menyoal sambil memandang tajam wajah mak. Emak ketawa kecil."Walaupun mungkin ada, mak tak pernah bagi peluang pada diri mak untuk mengisytiharkan perasaan tu..Mak takut pada Allah.



Mak bukan seperti rakan sebaya mak yang lain.."Mak, seperti kakak.." mak memandang saya sambil memegang pipi dan dagu saya.kemudian tangannya mengusap rambut di kepala saya.



"Mak anak ustaz ustazah.. Tapi zaman tu ustaz ustazah nya masih berkebaya pendek dan ketat. Tok wan mak kiyai. Mungkin berkat doa keturunan sebelum ni yang soleh-soleh, hati mak tertarik sangat pada agama walaupun tiada sesiapa yang mendorong.. Bila di sekolah, mak pelajar pertama yang bertudung.. Mak membawa imej agama. Kawan-kawan dan cikgu-cikgu panggil mak dengan gelaran mak Aji.. Sebab zaman tu hujung 70an dan awal 80an tak ramai lagi yang bertudung betul menutup auratnya..Zaman tudung nipis dan nampak jambul. Kemudian kawan-kawan mak sikit-sikit ikut bertudung.



Akhirnya kami semua dipanggil di perhimpunan. Kami dimarah guru besar kerana bertudung sedangkan ustazah kami bertudung tapi nampak jambulnya.."emak melemparkan pandangan ke lantai. "Selepas tu ustazah jumpa kami secara persendirian. Ustazah kata dia tak mampu nak pakai seperti kami. Dia suruh kami teruskan.." sambung emak.



Ada getar di hujung suara emak. Kisah silam perjuangan emak di sekolah dahulu sikit-sikit emak ceritakan pada saya. Itulah juga salah satu inspirasi kepada saya untuk bangkit semula setiap kali terjatuh ketika berjuang di sekolah dulu.



"Mungkin kerana personaliti mak, mak menjadi tempat rujukan kawan-kawan mak.. Jadi, bila mak nak ambil sesuatu tindakan, mak kena fikir betul-betul sama da tindakan mak tu akan menyebabkan Allah marah atau tidak. Mak ayah berdosa tak? Dan maruah pembawa agama terjejas tak? Kalau mak membalas cinta si lelaki tadi, bermakna mak sedang menconteng arang di muka-muka pembawa-pembawa agama. Orang akan pandang serong terhadap orang yang bertudung sedangkan kesilapan tu hanya seorang dua yang buat. Besar fitnah akan timbul apabila orang-orang agama mengambil ringan batas syariat duhai anak.." mak menelan air liurnya. Saya diam.



Fikiran saya sedang cuba memahami maksud mak saya.





Adakah ia suatu diskriminasi?





"Kakak.. Jatuh cinta perkara biasa. Apabila kita



jatuh cinta pada seseorang, itu tandanya ada



sesuatu keistimewaan pada seseorang tu.



Apatah lagi orang yang kita jatuh cinta tu di atas



jalan dakwah ni..Tetapi kita kena ingat.. Kita tak



akan dikahwinkan dengan seseorang atas sebab jatuh



cinta atau saling cinta mencintai.. Bercouple



mungkin.. Tetapi bukan berkahwin... Kerana kita



berkahwin dengan jodoh kita, jodoh yang Allah dah



tetapkan sejak azali.. Dan tak mustahil orang yang



kita paling benci itulah jodoh kita yang kita akan



dikahwinkan dengannya.."





Tiba-tiba air mata saya mengalir. Argh! Ego saya



kalah bila mendengar hujah emak. Emak meneruskan,





"Allah itu Maha Adil.. Dia tak pernah menzalimi



hambaNya..Sesungguh nya, yang selalu menzalimi



hambaNya ialah diri hamba tu sendiri.. Sebabnya



hamba tu degil. Dia mahukan yang bukan haknya, yang



bukan milik dia.





Mencintai seseorang tidak semestinya memilikinya.





Dalam Islam, kita dah diajar untuk saling mencintai



antara satu sama lain seperti diri sendiri.. Jadi



apabila kita mencintai saudara perempuan, kita



bebas peluk dia. Tetapi bila dengan lelaki, kita



ada batas-batasnya.





Orang kafir kata batas-batas ini suatu



diskriminasi, tetapi sebenarnya batas-batas syariat



itulah yang memelihara kehormatan seorang lelaki



dan seorang perempuan. Cuba kakak renungkan, kita



mengenali seorang insan yang amat baik, sempurna



agamanya dan rajin. Lalu kita jatuh hati padanya.



Ditakdirkan jodohnya dengan insan lain, kita pula



dengan yang lain..





Tetapi itu tidak bermakna ukhwah antara kita dan



dia terputus.. Kita dan dia sama-sama mencari redha



Allah.. Kita dan dia masih boleh sama-sama



bekerjasama untuk mencari redha Allah..



Perbezaannya, dia halal untuk isterinya sedangkan



untuk kita, dia tetap lelaki ajnabi seperti yang



awalnya." emak berhenti seketika.. Bukan luar



biasa...





Tentu kering tekak emak menerangkan kepada saya



persoalan hati ini.





"Kakak.. jadi di sini mak nak kakak faham, jatuh



cinta bukan perkara luar biasa..Dan berkahwin pun



bukan suatu jaminan untuk tak jatuh cinta pada



lelaki lain.. Kerana itulah ramai isteri yang



curang, suami yang curang..





Ada orang tukar pasangan macam tukar baju. Apa yang



penting ialah kita kena perjelaskan pada diri kita



supaya setiap kali kita jatuh cinta, jatuh cinta



itu kerana kita jatuh cinta kepada Pencipta dia.



Kita bagi tau pada diri kita berulang kali yang



kita mencintai Allah, kerana itu kita mencintai si



dia. Letakkan Allah sebagai sempadan hati kita,



segala perkara yang kita cintai dan sayangi



termasuk mak abah adalah kerana mencintai Allah..



Dan apabila kita membenci seseorang atau sesuatu,



beri tahu pada diri sendiri berulangkali yang kita



benci sekian-sekian hal kerana Allah semata-mata.



."





"Kakak.. Hati kita ni walaupun dalam dada kita



sendiri, ia tetap bukan milik kita. Kita tak mampu



untuk mengawalnya. . Hanya Allah yang boleh



memegangnya. . Sebab tu kita kena dekatkan diri



dengan Allah.. Sebab kita nak dia pegang kukuh-



kukuh hati kita. Bila dia pelihara dan masuk dalam



hati kita, itulah nikmat lazatnnya bercinta. Masa



tu biarpun satu dunia menyakiti kita, kita tak rasa



sakit sebab kita asyik dengan nikmat bercinta



dengan Allah..Bercinta dengan Allah sangat berbeza



dari bercinta dengan manusia. Kerana tentulah



pegalaman bercinta dengan lelaki kaya,rupawan,



sempurna dan bijaksana tak sama rasanya bercinta



dengan lelaki miskin, hodoh,cacat dan dungu..



Betapa nikmatnya cinta Allah, hanya mereka yang



pernah merasai sahaja yang mampu mengerti. "





Redha





"Kakak.. Walau siapapun jodoh yang Allah hantarkan



untuk kakak, terimalah dengan hati yang redha.. Tak



mustahil dia adalah orang yang kita benci. Kalau



yang kakak sayang, tak jadi hal lah.. Tapi kalau



dapat yang kakak tak nak, lantaran kelemahan yang



ada pada dia, ingatlah bahawa dalam diri setiap



insan telah Allah ciptakan dengan kelebihan masing



-masing. Dan mungkin kakak ada kekuatan yang dapat



mengubah si lelaki tadi supaya hidup dia bermakna



dan mungkin kakak sahaja yang mampu mencungkil



kelebihan yang ada pada dia.. Mungkin juga si



lelaki ini ada sesuatu kelebihan yang kakak sangat-sangat perlukan yang satu dunia tak mampu bagi pada kakak..



Alangkah bertuahnya kakak kalau kakak mengerti setiap pemberian Allah dan belajar untuk bersyukur.. "



Sekali lagi berjuraian air mata saya turun. Terasa lemah lutut hendak berdiri. Emak menarik tubuh saya dan memeluk erat. Pelukan emak sangat-sangat kuat.



"Emak dah didik anak emak dari belum lahir untuk mencintai Allah.. Sekarang emak serahkan anak emak yang mak sayang sangat ni pada Allah untuk Dia pelihara.."



Emak mengakhiri kata-katanya dengan suara sebak dan air mata yang mengalir ke bahu saya...



written by;

NURAINI JUWITA

sumber;

http://nurjuwita87.blogspot.com/2008/10/mana-

Moral

~CERITERA SEORANG BAPA DAN 3 ORANG ANAK~by Hizb Addeen on Friday, October 29, 2010 at 12:58am
Di sebuah kampung tinggal seorang lelaki tua yg sudah bertahun-tahun kematian isteri. Dengan arwah isterinya itu dulu dia dikurniakan tiga orang anak lelaki.



Semuanya sudah remaja. Anak pertama bernama Anis, kedua bernama Harben dan ketiga bernama Amsal. Akan ketiga-tiga ini yang paling disayangi ialah Harben.



Sayangnya dengan Harben langsung tidak diberinya keluar rumah. Si polan ini sayang juga dengan Anis.



Kadang-kadang dibawanya juga keluar rumah, ke pekan, ke penambang (jetty) dan ke sekitar kampung.



Almaklum anak yang ketiga iaitu Amsal kadang-kadang langsung tak diendahnya..jadi merayau-rayau lah si anak ini ke sekitar kampung dan sampai ke pulau seberang. Kurus kering badannya kerana jarang diberimakan.



Hendak dijadikan cerita, suatu hari yang mendung raja yang memerintah kampung itu dari pulau seberang telah memanggil si polan ini pergi mengadap.



Susah hati lah si polan ini sebab badannya sudah tua, terpaksa pulak mengayuh selat nak ke pulau tersebut. Lagi pula musykil hatinya. Apa yang dimahukan si Raja itu.



Maka dipanggilnya si Harben."Harben, tolong hantar ayah ke pulau seberang..Tuanku Raja memerintahkan ayah mengadap..boleh ya nak?"



Apa yang dijawab Harben? "Minta maaf lah ayah.



Masalahnya Harben tak pernah keluar rumah jadi macamana Harben nak hantar ayah ke sana sebab Harben tak tahu jalan.



Kalau mahu, Harben hantar sampai depan pintu saja lah, ye ayah?"Mendengar jawapan si Harben sedihlah hati si polan ini kerana anak yang disayanginya tidak boleh diharap. "Baiklah kalau begitu" jawabnya sedih.



Dipanggilnya pula si Anis."Anis, tolong hantar ayah ke pulau seberang..Tuanku Raja memerintahkan ayah mengadap..boleh ya nak?" Apa yangdijawab Anis? "Minta maaf lah ayah.



Masalahnya Anis tak pernah keluar dari kampung ni jadi macamana Anis nak hantar ayah ke sana sebab Anis tak tahu jalan.



Kalau mahu, Anis hantar sampai hujung kampung sajalah, ye ayah?"



Mendengar jawapan si Anis itu sedihlah hati si polan ini kerana anak yang disayanginya ini pun tidak boleh diharap juga.



"Baiklah kalau begitu"jawabnya sedih. Dipanggilnya pula si Amsal.



"Hei Amsal,tolong hantar ayah ke pulau seberang..



Tuanku Raja memerintahkan ayah mengadap.." Lalu Amsal menjawab, "Baiklah ayah" tanpa sebarang alasan.



Menyesallah dihatinya keranatidak menyayangi anaknya Amsal akan tetapi dia sanggup melakukan apa saja untuk ayahnya.



Lalu pergilah si polan mengadap Raja. Harben menghantar di pintu pagar rumah, Anis menghantar sampai ke penambang dan si Amsal mengikut ayahnya mengayuh kolek.



Sedang mengayuh itu, tidak semena-mena ribut melanda dan hujan lebat pun turun.



Terkial-kiallah mereka mengayuh dan disebabkan si polan yang dah tua dan si Amsal yang kurus kering karamlah mereka berdua terkubur di lautan.



Moral: Adapun anak-anak si polan ini ialah sebenarnya kehidupan lelaki tua ini.



Harben ialah HARTA-BENDA,Anis ialah ANAK-ISTERI, danAmsal ialah AMAL-SOLEH.



Lazimnya manusia sayang kepada Harben dan Anis tapi tidak pada Amsal.



Di mana bila manusia itu mati iaitu pulang kerahmatullah (mengadap Raja) yang dapat dibawanya hanyalah Amsal.



Harben tinggal dipintu pagar dan Anis tinggal di penambang (di tepi kubur).



Oleh itu dalam kita mengejar cita-cita di dunia ni jangan lah lupa dgn akhirat dan rukun Islam yang lima .







INGAT LIMA PERKARA, SEBELUM LIMA..

ingat..

bila ditegur org..terima dgn reda. sbb teguran tu datang dari DIA. kita xberhak nak membenci orang sebab kalau kita benci, kita benci DIA lah jgk kira kan?

maka..

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Subsidy :The Pro and Contra of it.

Malaysia: Subsidies or Bankruptcy?
MALAY MAIL
Wednesday, June 2nd, 2010 17:50:00
Dear Editor,

It was reported that subsidy cuts will be implemented from this month. The objective was to avoid bankruptcy due to accumulative debt caused by the subsidies. If not implemented immediately, the dooms day was predicted in 2019. If implemented now, a saving of RM103 billion within 5 years (2015) was forecasted.



The proposed cuts cover petrol, food items (sugar, flour and cooking oil), gas, toll rates, health care and education.



The intention is undoubtedly noble. Nobody wants the country goes to the drain. Therefore the subsidy schemes, currently stood at RM74 billion, should be revisited as they are largely expropriated by the undeserving rich people and big businesses. But the schemes ought to be continued for the deserving bottom 40percent whose monthly household incomes are below RM2,129.



But did Datuk Seri Idris Jala prudently choose the right word 'bankruptcy' and harshly put all the blame on subsidies? Does the mounting debt can only be tackled by cutting the subsidies? Did he give the government a comprehensive landscape and, hence, the right signal?



The sacred duty of any responsible government is to provide a better standard of living for its rakyat on a sustainable time frame. It should be achieved through prudent management of the economy. And 'prudent' does not necessarily means a balanced budget ALL the time.



The strengths (or weaknesses) of the government in managing the country's economy are measured by a few (basket of) indicators such as fiscal deficit, magnitude of debt, external debt service ratio and saving-investment gap.



The worst managed economy in the world is the US with debilitating budget, trade and balance of payments deficits. In the case of Malaysia, apart from a short period in the mid-1990s, the government has always run a fiscal deficit but nowhere close to that of the US. In fact, the government has managed to tame the fiscal deficit to 5.6 percent (as a percentage of GDP) in 2010, down from 7.4 percent in 2009.



At 5.6 percent, it is about half of that of UK's and Spain's and much lower than what Malaysia used to experience. In early 1980s, our fiscal deficit used to be at around 14 percent. And at the current rate the Prime Minister is driving the economy (10.1percent growth in first quarter), this year's GNP could be significantly above the target of RM499,690 million. Hence, the deficit in percentage terms would be reduced further.



Regarding the national debt that Idris was referring to, one has to look at its magnitude as well. It is normally measured as a percentage of GNP. In 2009, Malaysia's debt was 34.7 percent; about a fifth of what Japan is facing (192 percent) and 30 percent of Singapore (118 percent). Belgium and Italy used to experience about 180 percent.



Our country highest national debt ratio was in mid 1980s, at around 70 percent. What must be commended is that over the past few years, the Treasury has managed to pay almost all our foreign borrowings. This positive situation gives the government ample space to focus on tackling domestic borrowings which stood at RM321.5 billion in 2009; the lion share was government securities which constitute 7.1percent. It is important to note that domestic borrowings have negligible risk of impacting our foreign reserves. As at 14 May 2010 2010, it was RM314.2 billion and it can finance 8.3 months of retained imports.



Borrowing is one part of the equation; ability to pay is the other part. The later is normally measured in terms of external debt service ratio. In 2009, our debt service ratio stood at 6.5 percent; admittedly higher than the 2.6 percent recorded in the previous year.



Nevertheless, there is no reason to panic since our exports have shown a significant rebound of 31 percent during the first quarter this year. If the trend continues as forecasted, the percentage will definitely move south.



Additionally, by convention, the threshold is 20 percent; hence, we are much below that psychological line. Our worst case scenario was in 1986, when we had to service the debt at 18.9 percent.



Lastly let us look at the investment-saving gap. In 2009, our surplus was RM91.8 billion or 13.5 percent of GNP. It was higher than Germany's 10 percent saving rate, the biggest economy in the Euro Zone. Admittedly, it was lower than 2008 (18.1 percent). However, the surplus provided ample liquidity to finance domestic economic activities.



In terms of gross national savings, it was still at a comfortable level of 31.3 percent, albeit, 6.6 percentage point below the 2008 level. However, due to potentially strong economic recovery, it is projected that the savings will rebound to around 35 percent this year.



The above basket of economic indicators showed that Malaysia's economic structure is much stronger than it was in the 1980s and is comparatively better than some of those countries. Combined with its prudent and accomodative fiscal and monetary policies, the risk of being bankrupt is quite remote.



Such a possibility is further reduced when the government broadens its tax base through the introduction of GST and aggressively implementing high valued added economic paradigm. The resultant outcomes would be more taxable income and a wider taxable base.



Idris should also realise that our GDP can improve, and hence government revenue will rise, if corruption is effectively reduced. Leakages and evaporation will stop.



Additionally, a study showed that an increase of one point in the Corruption Perception Index (CPI) will attract FDI which is equivalent to 0.5percent of the GDP and pushed up the average income by 4 percent. Indeed the rakyat will benefit since the government is seen to be committed to fight corruption. The government revenue will increase accordingly.



Going back to subsidies cuts, before they are implemented, Idris should be reminded that the major economic factor contributed to the Alliance's big loss in 1969 was high unemployment rate (more than 8 percent). The main contributing economic factor to the 2008 political tsunami was inflation (5.4 percent).



Therefore, I believe the withdrawal plan would be judiciously implemented; less it may cost a government. Idris may win the battle (cut subsidies) but will lose the war (general election). From the violent reaction, I suspect Idris will be more tactful and politically sensitive in future.



He should have 100 percent confidence in the current government that it won't allow the country to go bankrupt. It has an excellent track record in effectively and efficiently managing it for the last 53 years.



Datuk Akbar Ali

Women And Beauty

Beauty Tips - 5 steps to looking presentable
JANIS SEET
Wednesday, June 2nd, 2010 13:45:00

LOOK EFFORTLESSLY GORGEOUS: Lend some colour to your face without looking over-the-top

We are all rushed for time. We women some times admire men who can languish that extra 30 minutes in bed as their daily routine does not include painting their faces.
Life is unfair. If a woman in a corporate envi ronment walks in bare-faced, people will surely stare. If a man walks in with not a smidgen of make-up on, no one will care, obviously!

Instead of complaining about the facts of life, we decided that the best way to go is to deal with it and improvise in whatever way we pos sibly can.

Today, we take a look at a quick make-up fix to give you some extra minutes in bed, perhaps? Either way it lends some colour without eating up too much of your time and is easy enough to do on the train while heading to work.

1. Start your face with a foundation. Use a tint ed moisturiser to save on time, after all, it is a little early to be layering it on! For a little ex tra coverage, brush on loose powder. This step should be done at home so that you don't have to carry a tonne of make-up around.

2. Decide which area of your face you want to focus on. Is it your eyes, your lips or your cheeks? If you have a little more time, go with the eyes. If you don't, then this needs to be done at home to avoid poking your eye out with your eyeliner.

3. If your focus is not the eyes, pick a neutral co lour like brown and apply it to your upper eye lid. Sweep a slightly darker colour near your lashes. Use a pencil liner and line your upper lash line, do not use liquid as you have no space or time for mis takes and pencil is more forgiving. Lastly, a quick application of mascara. This can be done in five minutes, tops.

4. Use a lipliner and line your natural lip line. Then apply a lipstick which should be the same co lour as your liner! If you wish to highlight your lips, go with a strong colour. If not, pick a neutral tone or if you are super pressed for time, a tinted gloss would be just enough to make sure you don't look dead.

5. Cheeks. If cheeks are not your thing, then forget the blusher tones and cheekbone-enhancing techniques. Instead of blusher, go with a bronzer to sweep it along the apples of your cheeks to wards your hairline. Slowly build colour till you are satisfied. Less is better! The bronzer doubles up to highlight your T-zone as well as add a little more definition to your jawline with just a quick sweep.

If done right, these five steps should take less than 10 minutes. Yes, we timed this - basically as much time as your man takes to shave!

Well, it does bring the divide between men and women slightly closer. Before we start complaining about how tough it is to be a woman, remember that we do have a choice and looking good is one of them!

Economy

Opinion 2010-06-02 18:22
By LIM SUE GOAN
Translated by SOONG PHUI JEE

Mao Zedong’s revolutionary theory of "surrounding cities with villages" propagated by the late Chinese Communist leader in September 1927 is no longer applicable in contemporary China.

Today, big cities in China are leading their villages in the development thrusts. Resources, including human skills and money, from the prosperous cities are mobilized to initiate and implement development in rural areas.

Deng Xiaoping's socio-economic reforms and liberal opening-up policy introduced 31 years ago included the establishment of four special economic zones to develop the country's coastal areas.

Today, there are 49 mega cities and 661 other cities in China. The urban areas are the engines of economic development and expansion in China as they are the source for wealth creation and growth.

The major development of western China was meant to mobilize and organize the rural people to provide them with better education, medical facilities, infrastructure and higher income.

Hence, it is understandable that the policy is to build more cities. Cities represent progress, openness and democracy. The urban life and lifestye will certainly contribute to improve and upgrade the people's quality of life.

The theme Better City, Better Life adopted for the Shanghai World Expo 2010 obviously has a profound meaning, and that is, to create a better urban living environment, there must be a people-oriented focus.

The admirable urban planning and development of Shanghai is perhaps a useful reference and guide for the cities in Malaysia.

In addition to being economically vibrant, a city must also have an aesthetic sense in its planning and development that will include concern with the appreciation of beauty of nature and pleasing appearance of the environment. It should also promote cultural, literary and artistic development, including the music and performing arts, the craft and fashion. Such a city will be a place where dreams are created and quality lifestyle is the norm.

If such is the character of our cities, the momentum of our country to march forward to an advanced developed nation status will certainly gather strength.

I was mesmerized by the beautiful marvelous night scene in Shanghai Pujiang when I toured the place in a boat. What a contrast to our disgustingly stinking, filthy and dirty Klang River! Such an unkempt state is simply a disgrace to our nation’s capital city.

Shanghai has a first-class public transport system with 11 subway lines, 266 stations and a 400km railway network. It has a really excellent and efficient transport network system.

In contrast, the poor and erratic transport network system in our national capital city Kuala Lumpur is giving its residents, especially those who depend on public transport to move around, a miserable life.

Shanghai will have its own Disneyland in the near future, and that will be another plus for this prosperous city of delight.

Beijing, Singapore, Hong Kong and other Asian cities have technologies and environmental-friendly features while democracy and pluralism are thriving in the western cities.

What about Kuala Lumpur?

In Malaysia, a city is simply a label without much acknowledge and respect.

Urban people are not much wiser than the rural folks, but they are exposed to information and opportunities which the rural people lack.

I believe the urban people want the New Economic Model (NEM) instead of the outdated New Economic Policy (NEP). But our politicians are more concerned with gaining electoral support than the real essential development values, in line with the globalization trend. Would the government go backward if the rural folks do not feel the need for change and transformation?

The authorities should take full advantage of the progressive force in urban areas to encourage changes in rural areas.

Today, Malaysians are still disputing over racial privileges as they dare not go beyond their comfort zone to dream, to imagine and to venture bravely and boldly into the new world of new opportunities.

The people of China have changed their mindset and have moved away from their old ways of thinking and doing things. Hence, the country is progressing dramatically.

What about Malaysia?

Sin Chew Daily

Sex And Education

What's love got to do with it?
Opinion 2010-06-02 18:28
By TAY TIAN YAN
Translated by DOMINIC LOH

I really had no clue how to give this article a proper title.

Should I just put it forthright: To be a good teacher, learn how to make love first?

Or: I'm a good teacher, and I make love every night?

If I did, I would have been smashed up by teachers and their spouses.

But what else could I say? This is the real thing! Kisah benar!

Two days ago, 41-year-old male teacher Alias Ismail, winner of the Tokoh Nilam award for outstanding teacher, revealed the secret recipe of his success. He said he derived his vitality and focus in teaching from, you guess, reading and sex!

Reading and making love every night, and the love-making always comes after the reading!

I have the slightest hint what these two things have got to do with each other.

For other people, the following might be the reality:

"Darling, what're you reading now?"

"I'm reading XXX. What about you, babe. Are you reading something?"

"Put that down, honey! Roll over quickly!"

So, to ordinary people, reading and love-making do not seem to get along so well with each other, unless you are holding a hard porn in your hands before going to bed.

But with the advent of CD, DVD and things like that, even this remaining possible linkage is now annulled.

It is not easy to emulate Mr and Mrs Alias for a number of reasons.

Firstly, people usually drift into dreamland having flipped a few pages, too exhausted for anything else including sex.

Secondly, if love-making is in the agenda, there is absolutely no place for reading mood.

As if that is not enough, these two things are physically and mentally exhausting, and the engagement in either of them could potentially kill the second day's vibrance.

But our Cikgu Alias accomplishes both these daunting tasks, and still stays physically and mentally active over time.

Wait a minute! It shouldn't go this way. Alias is a role model among teachers, someone the students should emulate and learn from.

But he is telling everyone that half his achievement has been attributed to his daily love-making routine.

Should other teachers and his pupils take cue from him?

As a teacher par excellence, a prominent figure in the education sector, he should have shared his teaching experience instead, for example, how to advance holistic education and how to prevent our schools from turning into "hell schools" like the one in Rawang, among many other things.

What he must not divulge to the public is the contribution of his daily night-time feats towards teaching excellence.

If he has some special liking in certain fields, that will constitute wholly his personal undertaking.

Common sense tells us that there is no correlation between these two things.

Alias' logic has been built upon the society's misconception about sex. Many people are only partially informed of regular sex, resulting in a lot of exaggeration, distortion and misinformation.

Ubiquitous love potion ads on lamp posts and road signs, the aphrodisiac effects emphasised by coffee drinks, the open sale of X-rated pornography and cheap and fanciful love that abounds in our midst. And to top it all, we now have a model teacher turned sex sales master.

Perhaps, Alias should take up an offer to speak for Tongkat Ali products, but where education is concerned, he has been talking nothing but trash. And from the medical perspectives, he should consult a physician, or a psychologist, to get his indulgence fixed up.

Sin Chew Daily

MySinchew 2010.06.02

PDRM

Khairil Shafie WARISAN DARAH PERWIRA

- Antara pasukan anti-gerila yang terbaik didunia.

- VAT 69 (Very Able Troops 69)- ditubuhkan pada 25 Oktober 1965 ilham daripada Allahyarham Tun Dr. Ismail, Menteri Hal Ehwal Dalam Negeri pada ketika itu.

- Objektifnya adalah berdasarkan keperluan pasukan polis perlu untuk mempunyai sebuah pasukan kecil yang berupaya untuk bekerjasama dengan pihak Cawangan Khas dalam menjalankan operasi di negeri-negeri yang diancam oleh PKM.

- Diawal penubuhan, sebahagian besar keanggotaan VAT 69 adalah dari anggota Pasukan Polis Hutan.(Dulu PPH dan pada waktu sekarang lebih dikenali sebagai PGA)

- Seramai 1,600 orang pegawai dan anggota PPH telah menghadiri pemilihan awal yang dikendalikan oleh 22nd. Regiment British Special Air Service secara sukarela, tetapi Cuma seramai 60 orang sahaja yang lulus untuk mengikuti kursus asas komando di Fort Kemar.

- Setelah latihan berakhir, hanya seramai 28 orang pegawai dan anggota sahaja yang layak terpilih menyertai unit baru ini.

- Sebagai pasukan elit PPH; VAT 69 memiliki kecekapan dalam selok belok peperangan hutan, gerakan ofensif dan operasi sulit.

- Apa yang menarik, VAT 69 telah mengekalkan pemakaian beret berwarna coklat keperangan (sand colour) yang dianugerahkan oleh pasukan British Air Service (SAS) yang bertanggung jawab melatih embrio awal VAT 69 pada 23 Oktober tahun yang sama iaitu 1969 bertempat di Fort Kemar di kawasan pendalaman Hulu Kinta Perak.

- Ia adalah satu-satunya unit pasukan khas dinegara ini yang diberikan penghormatan untuk menyarung beret yang sama warnanya dengan beret SAS.

- Secara asasnya VAT 69 boleh disamakan sebagaimana anggota GGK yang merupakan pasukan elit daripada cabang unit infantry dalam tentera darat.

- Secara amnya mereka melalui corak latihan yang hampir sama dengan mana-mana pasukan komando lain termasuk perlu memiliki kemahiran sebagai anggota payung terjun.

- Pada peringkat permulaan , unit ini dikenali sebagai nama diantaranya Charlie Force, Special Project Unit (SPU) dan Very Able Troop 69 (VAT 69)

- Pada tahun 1972, Kerajaan telah bersetuju dengan rasminya unit ini dinamakan sebagai 69 komando.

- Pada tahun 1983, bersesuaian dengan keadaan dan corak pergolakan dunia, British SAS kembali melatih semula unit ini dalam kemahiran serta selok belok operasi menentang pengganas (Counter terrorism) di kawasan Bandar dan penempatan.

- 69 komando mengungguli semua pasukan khas dinegara ini dalam menghapuskan petualang Negara, sehingga ada sesetengah pengkaji berpendapat antara sebab-sebab gerila komunis bersetuju memeterai perjanjian untuk meletakkan senjata mereka pada tahun 1989 adalah kerana kekuatan mereka hampir lumpuh digempur oleh unit ini berulang- ulang kali.

PERHATIAN : Ini bukan VAT 69 sengal dari Indon ye
April 21 at 6:18pm · Report

Khairil Shafie SUMBANGAN, KEJAYAAN DAN PENCAPAIAN

UNIT 69 KOMANDO

Dipertanggungjawabkan untuk melaksanakan operasi khas, menghadapi insurgensi, Krisis jenayah berat, bencana, sebagai ‘last resort’ dan ‘Final option’ dalam apa jua tugas yang tidak mampu dilaksanakan oleh unit ‘regular’ lain. Kejayaan dan pencapaian unit ini boleh dibahagikan kepada 6 bidang operasi.

- Pertempuran di hutan

- Menentang jenayah berat dan penculikan

- Menentang lanun di perairan

- Mencegah rusuhan yang bertukar menjadi krisis

- Tugas mengiring dan mengawal keselamatan VIP

- Mencari dan menyelamat.

PERTEMPURAN DI HUTAN

Semenjak ditubuhkan, 69 komando telah melaksanakan gerakan dihutan dan pencapaiannya adalah seperti rekod di bawah :-

- Pertempuran dengaan pengganas komunis – 50 kali.

- Pengganas dibunuh – 36 orang

- Pengganas ditawan – 82 orang

- Pengganas dicederakan – 34 orang

- Senjata pengganas yang dirampas – 372 laras

- Bom-bom yang telah dirampas – 203 set

- Khemah pengganas yang berjaya ditawan - 84 buah

- Tempat rehat pengganas dijumpai – 236 tempat

Kejayaan yang ditempa 69 komando dalam pertempuran di hutan adalah sangat membanggakan. Kejayaan menangkap hidup-hidup seramai 82 orang pengganas adalah rekod tertinggi dikalangan unit komando di seluruh dunia.

Kejayaan melancarkan ‘delibrate ambush’ dalam ops Indera XII di Bentong yang menumpaskan 9 orang pengganas tanpa sebarang bencana di pihak sendiri juga merupakan catatan yang membanggakan unit. Walau bagaimanapun 69 komando telah kehilangan 6 wira mereka dihujung senjata musuh dan jerangkap samar sepanjang penglibatan mereka dalam operasi pertempuran hutan ini.

MENENTANG JENAYAH BERAT DAN PENCULIKAN

Setelah Parti Komunis Malaya meletakkan senjatanya pada tahun 1989, 69 komando mula beralih arah menggunakan kemahiran tempurnya membantu pihak ‘Special Branch’ menentang penjenayah bersenjata di Bandar dan situasi tebusan.

Catatan pencapaian 69 komando dalam tugas berkenaan adalah seperti berikut :

- Jumlah gerakan – 31

- Penjenayah yang dibunuh – 15 orang

- Penjenayah yang ditangkap – 35 orang

- Senjata api yang dirampas – 23 pucuk Pistol, 3 raifal, 2 submesingan, 31 butir bom.

- Jumlah dadah yang dirampas – 427 kg Ganja

- Hasil rompakan yang dijumpai – melebihi RM 1 juta

- Tebusan yang dibebaskan – 3 orang.

Salah satu kejayaan terbesar 69 komando ialah dalam ops subuh di mana pegawainya telah berjaya menyusup masuk ke kubu musuh di Bukit Jenalek dan telah merampas beratus-ratus pucuk senjata milik Angkatan Tentera dan menawan 3 orang tebusan. Pegawai berkenaan mengambil masa lebih 2 jam memujuk kumpulan berkenaan kemudiannya bersetuju menyerahkan dirinya kepada pihak tentera.
April 21 at 6:19pm · Report

Khairil Shafie MENENTANG LANUN DIPERAIRAN

69 komando juga memiliki kemahiran di perairan. Sebagai bukti2 rekod cemerlang operasinya di perairan Sabah mencatatkan :-

- Jumlah gerakan – 2

- Jumlah lanun dibunuh – 3 orang

- Jumlah lanun yang ditangkap – 23 orang

- Senjata yang dirampas – selaras raifal AK 47, Selaras raifal Garrand, Selaras Shotgun dan 5 pucuk pistol.

- Ops Rambo yang dilaksanakan pada 1994 adalah satu kejayaan besar melumpuhkan pengganas antara bangsa dari Filipina yang dipimpin oleh Rizal Aleh. Kumpulan ini adalah sepihan dari MNLF yang telah membunuh seorang pegawai tinggi polis di sana yang berpangkat Brig. Jeneral. Setelah diburu mereka telah melarikan diri ke Sandakan Sabah. Mereka beroperasi di kawasan bakau dan perairan dengan menggunakan taktik lanun.

- Usaha menangkap mereka hidup-hidup telah berjaya walaupun mereka bersenjata api.

- Seorang pegawai 69 komando yang memimpin Ops berkenaan telah cedera di tembak dan kemudiannya telah dianugerahkan dengan pingat Panglima Gagah Berani.

MENCARI DAN MENYELAMAT

- Operasi menyelamat mangsa nahas udara sebanyak 3 operasi termasuk Ops Piper di Genting Bidai di kawasan Janda Baik

- Operasi menyelamat mangsa tanah runtuh tertimbus sebanyak 5 kali dan berjaya menyelamatkan mangsa seramai 5 orang.

- Operasi menyelamat dan mencari mangsa lemas sebanyak 6 kali dan seramai 12 orang dijumpai.

SUKAN

- Johan Marlboro Adventure Team pada tahun 1996 dan 1997

- Muncul juara Asia dan mendapat tempat kelima dunia dalam iron man echo challenge international di Hong Kong.

- Menjuarai dan mengungguli echo challenge international di Taiping.

- Mewakili PDRM dan menjuarai pertandingan mendaki Gunung Tahan dan Orienteering. Pasukan yang diwakili oleh pegawai dan anggota unit sering muncul juara atau mencapai keputusan yang memberansangkan samada di peringkat kebangsaan mahupun antarabangsa.

- Dalam sukan payung terjun, pasukan PDRM yang diwakili unit ini telah membolot tempat pertama acara kebangsaan 4 kejohanan berturut-turut. Di peringkat antarabangsa , pasukan ini mencatatkan keputusan membanggakan dalam acara canopy formation.

- Dalam pertandingan menembak pula, 3 tahun berturut-turut menjadi juara keseluruhan pertandingan tembak di International Full Bore Challenge LISRAM Langkawi dan 5 orang penembak ini dipilih mewakili Negara dalam acara tersebut
April 21 at 6:20pm

Monday, May 31, 2010

The power of a hug

The power of a hug


It has been proved that showing affection strengthens growth and positive development in people. We all need physical contact to feel good, and one of the most important ways of physical contact between two people is hugging.
Who does not need cuddles in this society that is becoming ever colder, more competitive, that compels us to be more individualistic, more personal-goal oriented...?
When we hug, we receive an energy feedback. We bring life to our senses and reaffirm the trust in our senses. Sometimes we CANNOT find the right words to express how we feel, and then hugs are the best way to say it.
We need four hugs a day to survive, eight to preserve ourselves, and twelve to grow. A hug makes you feel good. The skin is the biggest organ we have and it needs a lot of love. A hug can cover an extensive part of the skin and provides the massage you need. It is also a way to communicate. It can convey messages for which you have no words. We can always resort to the universal language of hugs.
The Power of Hugs
Hugging achieves many things that you might never have imagined. For example:
It feels good
It dissolves solitude
It defeats fear
It opens the door to sensations
It improves self-esteem (wow, he or she wants to hug me!)
It encourages altruism (I can't believe it, but I want to hug that person)
It delays aging (those who hug age more slowly)
It helps reduce appetite (we eat less when we are nourished with hugs and when our arms are wrapped around others)
More benefits from hugs:
It is environmentally friendly (it does not damage the environment)
It preserves energy
It is portable and requires no additional machinery
It does not require a special place to do it (an adequate place to hug)
In any place such as a conference room, a church or a football field
It makes happy days even happier
It gives us a sense of belonging
It fills the void in our lives
It is still effective even after the hugging has finished
It strengthens and increases our ability to share
It harmonizes the hearts of friends
Hugging creates some form of addiction to tenderness, to altruism, to happiness...

Just as laughter, it is highly contagious! Whatever your hug may be, let it always come from the heart, not from the mind.
Come up with new ways of hugging.
Give your hugs interesting or funny names.
Become a full-time "hug therapist."
Be always ready to offer a hug to someone.
Observe the other person and always be careful of his or her personal space.
Do not try to impose your vision or philosophy on others.
A hug does and says very much.

Hug your friend, your loved one, your kids, your parents, your pet...

Gawai 1Malaysia 1 Nation 1Motion

Gawai Preparation Starts With The Brewing Of TuakBy Linda Khoo Hui Li SERIAN, May 30 (Bernama) -- The aroma of "tuak" tickles the nostrils, filling the air with a sense of anticipation, signalling the arrival of the Gawai -- a festival which marks the end of the harvesting season. The Dayaks celebrate the Gawai annually on June 1, a thanksgiving day for the bountiful harvest and a time to plan for the new planting season. How this traditional wine tastes depends largely on who brews it. Made of fermented rice with yeast and sugar, tuak-making is the domain of the womenfolk who have to observe a myriad of rituals and taboos to ensure a fine tuak. Just ask Simai Linggi, an old hand in tuak-making, who has been brewing tuak and observing all the do's and don'ts religiously every year for the last 20 years. This 47-year-old housewife and mother of three from Kampung Lebor, Jalan Gedong, about 75km from Kuching, was taught the art of tuak-making by her mother and grandmother when she was in her 20's. She will proudly tell you hers is a "family recipe" and something she would not talk about. "Tuak-making starts early, sometimes two months before the festival. Brewing the tuak is always the first thing we do because a good tuak takes time to ferment," she told Bernama. Among the "pantang" or taboos observed by Dayak women is to avoid preparing the brew during menstruation. "It will make the tuak bad," she said. Another taboo is to never ferment the tuak in jars that were once used to store salt or salted foodstuff as this would cause the tuak to taste sour. "Those who brew the tuak should also avoid taking sour food and drinks," she added. The tuak is normally allowed to ferment in the jar for a couple of months, she said. "That is why we start to brew it two months before the Gawai." The Gawai festival starts on the evening of May 31 with the miring (offering) ceremony in the longhouse "ruai" or common space, or in the community centre if the community lives in a village. This is where the feast chief would give thanks to the gods for the good harvest and to ask for guidance, blessing and long life as he sacrifices a cockerel. "At the stroke of midnight, the ai pengayu (tuak for long life) is out with everyone sharing a toast. There will be eating and drinking, singing and dancing until the next day," she said. The longhouse never sleeps during Gawai, Simai said. In the morning, those who are still sober would be doing the "ngabang" (visiting friends and relatives). Simai said Gawai was the time for the Dayaks to showcase their rich cultural heritage and a time for the non-Dayaks to learn the tradition. Like in any celebration, when there is a beginning there will be an end. Celebrated over two weeks, Gawai comes to a close with the "Ngiling Tikai" or rolling up the mat ceremony. And the Dayaks would again go about their daily lives and routines; until the next Gawai comes around, that is. -- BERNAMA

Sunday, May 30, 2010

Where Do The Indian Stand?

PKR to have multiracial task force to help Bumi
SUN, 30 MAY 2010 18:48
KOTA BAHARU: Non-Muslim PKR leaders have pledged to set up a task force help resolve issues involving the Malay and Bumiputera communities “marginalised” under Barisan Nasional. PKR leaders, MP Tian Chua and Selangor councillor Dr Xavier Jeyakumar, in pledging their assistance, said the task force would work with any individual or organisation towards this aim.

Yesterday, PKR president Dr Wan Azizah Wan Ismail in her opening speech at the national PKR convention, had asked for the setting up of a special team to focus on the issues of Malay and Bumiputera communities.

She said the team should be multiracial because the problems of a single community is not necessarily their own and others must share the burden of finding a solution.

Different from BN

“PKR is different from Umno and BN which considers the problems of one community as their own headache. Our approach is universal. We will not marginalise the Bumiputeras.”

Tian Chua said the special team will comprise members of all races. “We will share our experiences and hopefully find solutions to resolve their issues.”

Jayakumar, meanwhile, said Selangor already had a committee overseeing the poor in the state.

He said in Selangor, aid was available irrespective of race and 80% of the recipients were from the Malay community.

“I welcome the president’s suggestion. In Selangor I head the portfolio on poverty which involves the poor and low income earners. We already have a committee that oversees poverty in the state,” he said